Saturday, January 29, 2005

Ladies and Gentlemen, thaw your brains

Why do people ordinarily so suspicious of everyone in their lives revere some religious institutions and follow some religious leaders with utter and complete devotion? What makes people follow these pied pipers in the mistaken belief that they are doing the "right" thing for the "good" cause?

We have had two Acharya's - Hindu religious leaders - of the Kanchi Mutt in South India, arrested for allegedly ordering the successful murder of a former Mutt Employee, Mr. Shankararaman. Their innocence or guilt is largely dependent upon who you ask and I for one, am in no hurry to dole out justice until I hear the Supreme Court of India weigh in with its opinion. The High Courts, sadly, have shown a tendency to be bought and / or pressured.

As is to be expected, considerable national attention is being focused on this matter, with the usual suspects, BJP, RSS, the Bajrang Dal and the VHP all up in arms demanding everything from immediate release of the Acharya's to the dissolution of the State Government.

In the midst of all this hoopla - largely unnoticed by the rest of the world - Anuradha Ramanan, a woman writer of some fame, came out and accused the senior of the two Acharyas of behaving "inappropriately" with her when she visited him at the mutt along with a friend of hers. Here is the kicker: the accusation was leveled 12 years after the fact.

The nature of the accusation has shocked many, but the delay has raised more than a few eyebrows. But, there seems to be a group of people, whose strongly held opinion it is that this woman has no right to even come out and accuse the Acharya's of anything as he is completely above board and beyond such things. Where is the justice in this? Where is the protection of a person’s rights in this? Would we behave this way if a daughter of ours accused the Acharya of such conduct?

Tamil Nadu tends to be mind-numbingly conservative, and a woman coming out about being sexually harassed is in itself a rare occurrence. She is inevitably subjected to public ridicule for having lost her “virtue” and harassed further with catcalls on the street. For a woman, coming out with such an accusation is a rather burdensome undertaking that requires serious guts to do. So, it is completely understandable that Ms. Ramanan waited for a long – some might say opportune - time to level her accusation. It only stands to reason that she might be taken more seriously if the integrity of the person she is accusing is already under question. Had she come out with this accusation right after the fact, most people would have called her everything from “heretic” to “slut”. Rather than make a mockery of her accusation by discrediting her, we should strive to seek the truth in such matters. May be we will learn something about these Acharyas / Fathers and / Imams, that we didn’t know about.

Blind faith is a terrible thing, and has been exposed rather cruelly several times in recent memory by such characters as “Kalki Bhagwan”, “Chaturvedy Samiyar" and Premananda. And yet, the average person plods on, firm in their belief that this is an aberration, and that the vast majority of such god men are messengers from the lord.

Blind faith leads to very poorly evolved societies. We should NOT perpetrate the mentality that has caused our politicians to get to where they have gotten, and the state of affairs to what they have become, which is, putrid. We have suffered enough from placing our blind trust in frivolous institutions and individuals. Now has come the time to question people and organizations and have them prove themselves before they are accorded trust and respect. As a society, we must continuously monitor the situation, for such trust and respect should not be granted permanently, but rather as a credential that may be yanked at any time. You are only as good as your last behavior/action/word.

Wondering what set off this rant?! There is this site created by devotees of these Acharya's called Kanchi forum, which I will not glorify by giving you its URL, whose administrators delete every single post that is not in line with the "Acharya's are innocent and their Accusers are all morons" idea. One website does not indicate a social trend, you say?!

I humbly submit that the vast majority of people think this way; that the institution must be protected at all costs, and begin circling the wagons at the earliest opportunity.This is extremely intellectually immature, as it stunts dissension and encourages the construction of institutions and individuals that don’t deserve the trust and respect accorded to them.

Seems like a thawing of some brains is in order.

Friday, January 28, 2005

Babysitting Murray

I found out this morning that I am going to be babysitting my colleague Elliot's dog Murray, a really really cute English Cocker Spaniel puppy for a few hours tomorrow. I love dogs - of a few kinds - and fortunately for me, I love his ilk. I am so excited to do this. I do want a dog of my own, though Raji has some pretty strong - and clinching - arguments against them.

Pets as a whole, to people like me, are wonderful things. As much as I agree with Animal rights activists who say that keeping Pets is wrong - for a myriad of reasons that I won't get into - they still tug at my heart. Dogs are wonderful beings, providing unconditional love to us, lowering our blood pressure and relaxing us with their undemanding (for the most part) presence. Cats, on the other hand, behave as though you are fortunate to have them. I love cats as well, by the way.

There was a time when I was mortally scared of most dogs, but now I have mostly grown up. I still loathe Rotties, Pit Bulls, Bull Terriers and all intimidating dogs in general, but I love puppies. They aren't too bad at that age, much like children, who can bowl you over with one look or action.

Maybe I ought to tell Raji that we ought to first get a dog, and then if I really like the experience and can be responsible enough to be a "Father" to a doggie, we can start that family that she has been talking about.

At least, it's not to buy a silly SUV. :D

Thursday, January 27, 2005

My parents' prayers answered... decades later.

I have to wear a mouthguard to stop gnashing my teeth at night, which would prevent my teeth from being completely ground away. I have been using it for about a week or so now. I find that I do not wake up in the middle of the night gnashing my teeth anymore. So, it works. That's the good news.

It is so hard to go to sleep with this thing on. I guess I will have to put it on around 11p or so and sleep when I can. However, I then can't talk, because this stupid thing is like a vise on my upper teeth. But I guess it's the one thing that my parents and relatives wanted badly when I was in India. My nick then?! Chatterbox., :)

Check out my SO's blog: http://writermanque.blogspot.com. And don't ask me what manque means. :D

Wednesday, January 26, 2005

Hard earned lessons...

Ran for about 50 minutes yesterday. Ran for 3, walked for 2, 10 times, and my left shin started killing me after about the 6th rep. So, I completed the rest of the workout in pain. Everytime I am in good running shape (twice now), I vow not to stop, because it is so hard to get to where I was. And then, just like that, something happens (get laid off etc etc), I completely lose motivation and lose all that hard-earned fitness. This becomes obvious only during the long climb back to some kind of running shape.

For me running shape is defined as the ability to do a half-marathon at the drop of a hat. This time around, I swear to take it slow, not overdo it and progress in stages. By stages I mean, I will first do 10Ks and when I am decent at it, I will start training for a half. I would really like to start running marathons again.

TV is a time sucker. Duh! I have noticed that the more I watch TV, the less time I have for other stuff. I sleep later at night, wakeup exhausted, and constantly suffer because of my habits. I don't read much, all my chores stagnate, and I become terrible. Time to change them. Easier said than done?

Tuesday, January 25, 2005

Close, but no Cigar

Well, now that I have made a single mistake in Hindu xWord 2590, I am now working on the London Sunday Times xWord, that Rhona introduced me to. I have done a few now, far more than what I used to pull off on my own when I worked with her.

Sad News: My father-in-law's visit ended today afternoon. He is actually one of those F-I-L's that makes one miss him. :D He is off to NY now.

Another earthquake rocked Madras (yes, I am stubborn). I wonder what would happen if a BIG one hit? All of South India is cement/brick based construction. Loss of life would be quite terrible. I guess we will cross that bridge when we get there.

Writing a few articles now. Impetus came from F-I-L.

Reading Thuglak now. The cartoon on the latest one was Unbelievable. Vintage Cho.

Monday, January 24, 2005

Some days I am Hot! Some days I am NOT!

Excellent Progress on Hindu Crossword 2590

Got everything almost on my own, with the notable exception of 2d, which is Ruritania. How, I know not!

Well, I can explain most of the clues, but some of them are just pattern matches (such as my own answer for 2d which was Rarotonga).

15d had no indication as to being complete (it was missing wwrd count and length info). But thanks to my genius, I figured that out as well.